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If you have a secret dream (aka. something you’ve  thought about being or doing from a fairly young age but have never acted upon), I want you to know that you’re not alone.

In fact, most people I talk to have at least one of these dreams.

Many of us have an idea in our head of a “far-off” dream that we tell ourselves would never be possible. Then, occasionally, we see the person who makes their “far-off” dream a reality, and we momentarily wonder… “Maybe it IS possible?”

However, we quickly smarten up and tell ourselves that, well, it was possible for that other person because they have x degree, or y skill, or z intelligence; basically, they’re just a heck of a lot more talented and capable.

My darling friend, if this story sounds familiar to you, I want you to know this:

You are just as capable as ANYONE who has ever achieved something great in their lifetime.

It’s not how talented, intelligent, and capable you are, it’s how talented, intelligent, and capable you BELIEVE you are.

It’s all about confidence baby.

Those things you tell yourself about not being smart enough, educated enough, old enough, skillful enough, witty enough, etc. are what you might like to think of as cobwebs. They are stories you tell yourself that fog up and clutter the core of you; the core of you that knows EXACTLY what you are meant to be doing in this life time.

Clearing out these cobwebs can take time (in fact, it could take many, many lifetimes to clear out all of them!). However, this is SUPER important work that we all need to do in order to grow and become our best selves (aka. to truly step into our greatness).

However, there are several techniques that one can use to cut through all the cobwebs and shine a light on the core of one’s being. Today, I am sharing with you the one powerful question I have discovered that is very effective at doing so; it doesn’t get RID of the cobwebs, but it does shine a light so that one may momentarily see through them.

Here’s the question:

What would you do if you knew you could not fail?

Take a moment to pause here, take a deep breathe, and tune into your body.

From there, let the answer arise.

My guess is, whatever comes up is going to scare you; it’s going to cause you to second-guess yourself; it’s going to create butterflies in your stomach. Don’t worry, that’s just the cobwebs screaming at you, telling you to turn off the light because they prefer to stay in the dark.

My guess is, that whatever comes up for you is IT. It’s what you’re meant to be doing in this lifetime (or at the very least, it’s pretty darn close).

Sometimes, we think what we need is clarity before we can move forward, when in fact, the clarity is already there. All the answers we ever need are within us.

Often, what we really need more than the clarity is to clear out the cobwebs: so that we may BELIEVE we are truly talented, intelligent, and capable.

That being said, lack of clarity can be a GREAT excuse to stay exactly where we are, where it’s totally safe & comfortable.

Curious: Are you letting lack of clarity be an excuse for not making any changes in your life?

If you answered yes to that question, please be kind & gentle with yourself. This is super common, and really quite normal.

The next step after acknowledging this excuse is to take action on it: begin de-cluttering and clearing out the cobwebs so you can truly step into your greatness and let your light shine.

If you need help, I’m here.

Here’s to shining the light on your life’s work.

Rebecca

One Question to Help you Discover your Life’s Work.

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If you have a secret dream (aka. something you’ve  thought about being or doing from a fairly young age but have never acted upon), I want you to know that you’re not alone.

In fact, most people I talk to have at least one of these dreams.

Many of us have an idea in our head of a “far-off” dream that we tell ourselves would never be possible. Then, occasionally, we see the person who makes their “far-off” dream a reality, and we momentarily wonder… “Maybe it IS possible?”

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Impact Fridays: Short Video tips on Living your Purpose & Making an Impact

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Here is a summary of all 7 videos in the Impact Friday video series.

This week’s tip is all about chillaxin’! Watch the video to find out how this can help you live your purpose & make an impact.

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Stop procrastinating and get shit done this week.

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Stop procrastinating, get shit done.

**Make sure to check out the challenge at the bottom of this post!**

Isn’t it bizarre that you can sit in front of your computer for HOURS and then stand up and wonder to yourself… ‘what the heck did I just do?!’.

You may have learned some things, but you didn’t necessarily absorb them or retain them fully. You may have done some slightly productive things, but not the things that are really going to help you get ahead and achieve your desires.

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How I Learned to Care Less About What Others Think.

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Doing what we want in life, and living out our deepest desires, takes guts.

Why?

Because most people don’t do it.

Many people have a secret passion or desire in the back of their minds and they’ve never had the courage to do it. This is why when we step out and do things a little bit differently (which often happens when we choose to live our purpose), we might feel we’re being watched closely by others: because we probably are.

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On Feeling Uninspired.

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I have to be honest.

Some days, I wish I could just be happy & satisfied working at a convenience store, or running a small coffee shop. Some days, I wish I could just live a simple life and be content with that, desiring nothing more than a partner, some kids & plenty of time spent reflecting in nature.

Some days, I dream of being totally unplugged from my computer and my cell phone; I dream of days with absolutely nothing planned but long walks in the forest and pen to paper contemplating the nature of my existence.

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5 Tips to Break Free of Your Debt!

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Do you ever feel totally overwhelmed and weighed down by your debt? Have you ever let your debt, or the possibility of going into debt, hold you back from pursuing your dreams? Do you ever tell yourself that you’ll do that thing your heart really yearns to do later, once you are out of debt?

If you answered yes to any of those questions, then this post  is for you!

Again and again I see client’s, friends, and other people I meet letting their debt prevent them from moving forward and pursuing what it is they really want.

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Living Your Purpose: Interview with Ron Beaton (my super inspiring Dad!!)

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“Happiness is a product of living a purposeful life with a mission.”

This is the fifth in the Living Your Purpose blog series. Every blog contains an interview with a different person living their purpose, and doing something remarkable! Read on to learn insights about finding your purpose, how you know it’s your purpose when you’ve found it, and how to stay on purpose once you’re living it.

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